Trainer or psychologist?

By now, some readers are thinking that dog training is looking awfully complicated.  Heck, they just want to get a couple of titles.  Have some fun on the weekends; make new friends.  And here's a blogger suggesting that each dog she's trained is an act of perpetual psychology; make a few wrong moves and damage the team.

The good news is that most dogs are highly forgiving - you'll be able to make lots of mistakes and they'll never let on. The percentage of relatively straightforward dogs rises if your goal is to trial only a few times a year; mostly to get the titles.   And if you select the "right" dog, and use a method of training that has proven effective with that type of dog, you'll have even more success.  It helps if you're not sweating the picture too much.

If you know that you're temperamentally unable to stand frustration and you want great success, then I'm going to suggest you select your breed, individual puppy and training method very carefully to get the stars aligned in your favor.  Really.  There's no point in knocking your head against the wall if your primary interest is to succeed via the scoresheet.

The trade off, of course, is that the easy ones dont' advance our skills very much.  But sometimes what we need to learn is simply basic mechanics, in which case the best choice is to select for a highly forgiving, willing and stable partner, at least to start.

"Forgiveness", "willingness" and "stability" will take you far in the sport of obedience.  I'd say it's 90% of the battle, once you master those pesky technical skills.  Because if your dog has forgiven you whatever you did to get the skills taught, isn't having a personal meltdown at the dog show, and wants to make you happy even when you're not dangling a cookie, then the future is bright indeed.

But with dogs lacking one or more of those qualities, teaching the exercises ends up being the easy part.  Getting those skills into the ring - well, that's another kettle of fish.  And if you want a dog that shows a relaxed, happy picture....now you're in the realm of serious challenge.

If you have already selected your non-traditional obedience breed and don't plan to switch, or you currently own a dog that you're training for competition, or you've discovered that your traditional obedience dog isn't acting traditionally, then being something of a doggy psychologist is probably a good idea, especially if you're running into trouble.  For me, that's the part of training that is interesting - figuring out how to keep the entire team emotionally comfortable, happy and willing.

The best thing about reading a blog is that you don't have to.  You could go outside and train your dog instead.  But if you're still here, it's possible, or even likely, that you're sort of interested in your dog as a partner; you'd like to understand what is happening inside that furry head and make things as good as possible for the team, not just the human.  In which case, I'd say we're off to a good start, because my goal in teaching is to help others think like doggy psychologists too.

My new puppy is only 12 days away now.   I cant' wait to meet her!

17 comments

Melinda Wichmann

I look forward to reading more! I’ve always felt dogs came into our lives for specific reasons. Now I’ve got the “this will make you a better trainer” dog. I am fascinated by him and after beating both of us over the head with my frustration, am enjoying unraveling the Malinois mystery. Training the exercises is the least of it.

Lynnda L

Yup, for some dogs, teaching the competition behaviors is the most straightforward part. For my current obedience dog, knowing the exercises is not the barrier — it is can you focus & not worry in this location at this time? Or is the dog busy looking over her shoulder for who-know-what? The dog of whom I speak could not go outside in the front yard at midnight the other night and go potty [she normally goes in the back yard]. She was very alert and looking all around at the quiet street & neighbor yards. [My two male dogs have not had any problems pottying in the front yard late at night.] This dig learned to pick up the dumbell off the ground in two clicker sessions…. So, oh yes, the role of psychologist is part of dog training. Thanks for the post.

Robin Clark

Denise, your blog has ***already*** been a help to me. I can already see the impact of trying these ideas on my Aussie and BC. I totally understand what you are saying. My frustration/fascination is with my Keeshond, Norton. Whereas I understand what my other 3 dogs are telling me, I just can’t figure out why Norton is doing the things that he does. I’ve been to four of the top trainers in the midwest/east. Each of them have had a different interpretation of Norton’s behavior. This is comforting to me because I think I am a pretty savvy dog trainer. Maybe I’ll never know what is going on in his furry head, but I am having a blast trying to figure it out.

Robin

Crystal

Oh gosh, yes. Having a temperamental dog does so make this difficult. My dog is willing- she so badly wants to work with me. She’s even forgiving- I’ve put her in some stupid situations, but she still trusts me. But stable? Even on medication, there’s something to be desired there.

And yet the challenge is so fun. Having a “crazy” dog has forced me to learn a lot about dogs in general, and this one in particular. It has deepened our relationship in a way that might not have happened had she been a bit more normal. And I wouldn’t trade her for the world.

rtsallie

One has to be both. Thank you for blogging. You are an inspiration to me.

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